Fighting About Housework?
It’s estimated that as many as 80% of couples argue over housework and daily chores. The most common argument revolves around when to do housework, how to do it, and who should do it. We can help mediate some of the quarrels with some tips below.
Write a list
Organise a time for you and your spouse to make a list of what tasks you will each complete. Try to be as specific as possible, and outline when you want the tasks done. Be honest with one another about what you feel you can realistically achieve.
Compromise
Life contains many ups and downs, some weeks are busy whilst others are more calm. There will be times where you don’t get everything done, and that is ok. Prioritise immediate chores which are essential to the function of the home, and leave the rest for when you have more time.
It’s not about the housework
Quite often, arguments surrounding housework are really quarrels fuelled by frustrations rooted elsewhere. Stressors from work, the pressures of parenting or monetary worries can weigh heavily on us. Lending a helping hand to your partner when their stressors are high can go a long way in preventing fighting.
Outsource the work
If you and your partner are still arguing about the chores, consider hiring some help! You might need a fortnightly clean to keep the kitchen and bathroom clean, or a more regular service to keep on top of the day to day tasks. Jim’s can help with the daily cleaning tasks and laundry, or the less frequent tasks like carpets and windows to take the pressure off.
